Are there any other mom’s out there that sometimes are jealous of their husbands?
Hear me out here …
My husband travels a lot for a living and while he is gone he eats out for every meal. Me, I’m cooking spaghetti and making PB & J sandwiches while he dines out.
He gets to sleep through the whole night with no babies waking up with runny noses, or wet b/c they’ve peed all over themselves. He doesn’t have to change sheets or diapers in the middle of the night.
While he is gone he gets to mingle with lots of adults and most of the time has great conversations. I am happy to just get through the check out line at Target with out having to explain to the clerk why my children are yelling …. they are tired, of course!
While he is gone he gets to dress nice and look presentable. Today I wore the same t-shirt that I slept in last night all day long. I haven’t combed my hair yet today and didn’t even attempt any make up.
While he is gone the most he has to clean up is to put his clothes in the same area as his suit case so the housekeeper can clean up around him. Here at the house I cleaned two bathrooms today from top to bottom, cleaned up the kitchen three times today, and washed four loads of laundry.
While he is gone he only has to worry about cleaning his own body parts. Here I’m responsible for two little boys to smell clean for school tomorrow.
Okay, I know this sounds like I’m complaining, and actually I think I am. Let me explain though. Normally when my hubby travels he is only gone about 3 – 4 days at a time. Today this makes night #7 that I’ve been doing this on my own. I’m tired. I’m tired. I’m tired. The boys were actually in bed and asleep before 7:05! The sun isn’t even down then!!!
If you keep up with my blog you know that it is not unusual for me to have these “down” days and then God ever so gently helps me get back on track. Most of my conversations with Aaron on the phone tonight were of me complaining about him being gone for so long and me holding down the house all by myself. After that as I was bathing my boys and sulking in my loneliness I thought of all the soldiers wives and husbands that literally do it all alone for months upon months at a time. I’m complaining about SEVEN days! Once again, I am sulking for nothing. I do have it really good.
Then the next thing that happened was when I was reading books with the boys tonight. I love this time. It is literally one of my favorite times of the day. Lately Little Boy has been very irratable at night. From about 4 until bedtime he only wants me to hold him and I just can’t do that the whole time. BUT while we are reading I can hold him forever and he is so happy in my lap.
They each picked out their books to be read and all was well. Then we got to Big Boy’s book and I sighed because I LOVE this book, but hardly ever read it without tearing up. Here this may ring a bell …
I’ll love you forever
I’ll like you for always
As long as I’m living
My baby you’ll be.
Of course as I got to the end where the son is rocking his mama the tears began to flow.
That is when I realized how lucky I am to be the one at home with the boys. Aaron may get lots of other perks that I don’t get now, but I think that I have the best deal.
I get all the kisses.
I get all the hugs.
I get to snuggle with my babies.
I get to lay on the floor with wonderful smelling boys in their brand new jammies.
I get the run and jump into my arms hugs.
I get to hear “mom, i like your shirt” 15 times a day.
I get the head of Little Boy resting on my chest as I rock him.
I get to listen in on the conversations that Big boy has with his toys while playing.
I get to see Little boy swing on the swing by himself for the first time.
I get to smell that baby morning breath every day.
I get to hear “i love you mom” over and over again all day long.
I get to read books to my boys every night.
I get to listen to sweet, innocent, heart felt prayers from a 3 year old!
You see once again, God has adjusted my thinking tonight and for that I’m greatful. Still very tired. But, oh so grateful!